Hey Friends! Today, I stand before you not just as Gervase Ware, but as Dr. Gervase Ware (“Dr. G”), a title earned through perseverance, resilience, and the unwavering support of those closest to me. My journey to this moment has been filled with twists and turns, challenges and triumphs, but through it all, one thing remains constant: the fire within me that refuses to be extinguished.
As I embarked on the path towards my doctoral degree, little did I know the hurdles that awaited me. Alongside the rigorous demands of academia, life threw its own curveballs my way. Just when I thought the challenges couldn’t get any tougher, life delivered a devastating blow—I lost my beloved mother, Eva Sahib Rogers. Her passing left a void in my heart, a pain that words cannot fully express.
Yet, amidst the grief and sorrow of losing her, I found myself facing another life-changing event. I welcomed the birth of our youngest son, a joyous occasion that brought immeasurable love and light into our lives. Amidst the joy, however, there were also sleepless nights, juggling the responsibilities of motherhood with the demands of my studies.
In the midst of these overwhelming circumstances, the thought of giving up crossed my mind more than once. Yet, deep down, I knew that my journey was not just for myself, but also for her—for the woman who had always believed in me, even when I struggled to believe in myself.
With the unwavering support of my family and friends, I navigated through these challenges, emerging victorious and ready to continue my pursuit of becoming Dr. G. Despite the obstacles and heartaches, I remained determined to honor my mother’s memory and fulfill my dreams. And today, as I stand on the other side of adversity, I am filled with gratitude for the strength and resilience that carried me through. I found the strength to continue, to honor my mother’s memory by pursuing my dreams with even greater determination. They became my pillars of strength, lifting me up when I felt like I couldn’t go on, cheering me on with unwavering faith and encouragement.
To my family and friends, I owe you everything. Your love, your encouragement, your belief in me—it is the fuel that propelled me forward, even when the road seemed endless. And to my beloved mother, know that your spirit lives on in me, guiding me, inspiring me, and reminding me that no dream is ever out of reach.
So here’s to new beginnings, to triumphs born out of adversity, and to the power of love and resilience to overcome even the greatest of obstacles. Thank you for being a part of my journey—I couldn’t have reached this summit without each and every one of you.
With boundless gratitude and a heart overflowing with love,
Dr. G ✨
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